'It's all in your head': Top cringe comments from doctors with poor bedside manner

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    Motor vehicle - r/AskReddit Posted by u/Monsah 17 hours ago What is the most unprofessional thing doctor has said to you?
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    Font - sadsledgemain. 17 hr. ago. edited 1 hr. ago I had severe cystic acne, and the conventionally attractive, young female doctor with perfect skin and a full face of makeup refused to prescribe me something, and instead told me that I shouldn't feel bad about having acne, because appearance didn't matter and personality is all that counts. :)
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    Font - It took me several years to find a doctor who took me seriously, got my hormonal levels tested and put me on spiro, but that one woman was by far the worst. I went home and cried after.
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    Font - Edit: It's so reading all of your experiences and seeing how ridiculously common this is. I'm so frustrating sorry for what you've been through, I can relate to both the physical and mental pain so hard, and I hope you've all received the help you deserve since. 5.8k Reply Share
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    Font - csudebate 16 hr. ago Broke a bone in my foot. Knew that I had broken a bone in my foot. Went to the doctor and he told me that I didn't break a bone in my foot but instead was suffering from gout. I'm not even in the realm of people that experience gout and had zero other signs that it could've been gout. He was going to refuse my request for an X-ray but I made him do it. An hour later, I'm in his office and he holds up the x-ray and informs me that I broke a bone in my foot. 5.3k Reply
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    Font - StarsGoingOut - 16 hr. ago edited 15 hr. ago • Back in college, I went to see the doctors at Student Health about an issue. It was a very nice, well-regarded university in the northeastern U.S. The doctor (it was a doctor, not a NP) was going to prescribe me 5mg pills of a medication, to be taken daily. He went to see if it was covered and was like "Oh, sorry, our insurance only covers 14 pills per month. Sorry, guess you can't take your medicine every day, unless you want to pay out of p
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    Font - I then asked if this medication was sold in 10mg pills. He said yes. I then asked if the same plan would cover 14 pills per month of the 10mg pills. He said yes. I then asked if the pills were perforated. He said yes. I then asked if he could just prescribe me 14 the 10mg pills, as that was covered, and I could use the perforation and take half a pill (i.e., 5mg) per day.
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    Font - The doctor then got quiet, paused for a moment, got REALLY weird, and said "You are suggesting insurance fraud. I will not continue this discussion. You need to get out of my office right now. If you say another word to me about this, I will notify the insurance company and will notify the police and would recommend that they press criminal charges."
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    Font - I have subsequently told this story to several doctors later in my life at cocktail parties. Nobody thinks it was insurance fraud. Everyone tells me the doctor had no clue what he was talking about. I was a young, scared college student. So I walked out and got no medication for my condition. Thanks for nothing, doctor. 4.7k Reply Share
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    Font - kellygrrrl328 17 hr. ago. edited 2 hr. ago I took my then 4 y/o daughter to a pediatric gastroenterologist. First he said she's just being dramatic. Then he said, well, she'll get married some day and be someone else's problem. That was 25 years ago, and it still shocks me! Turned out she had a partial bowel obstruction. ETA: I just looked him up and he's still practicing in Encino, CA. 3.3k Reply Share
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    Font - Bite_me_23 17 hr. ago "That's normal in your line of work. Just ignore it, the pain will go away." I went in for shoulder pain, as my left shoulder would be killing me after a day loading trucks all day. This was an ongoing thing for weeks before I went to get it checked.
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    Font - Didn't examine my shoulder. Didn't have any x-rays done, catscans done, MRIS done, nothing. didn't even have me take my shirt off. Turns out that I had a torn rotator cuff.
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    Font - didyoubutterthepan. 17 hr. ago I was at the doctor for strep throat symptoms. I had just moved so I was seeing a new dr for the first time. He walks in, is looking at my chart, doesn't look up and tells me- you're 7 pounds overweight. You need to lose weight. I was 112 lbs. ↑ ↓ 1.9k Reply Share
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    Font - PrincessSummerTop. 16 hr. ago "You're 27. I don't know what you have to be anxious about." (This was in the 1990s) 1.3k Reply Share
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    Font - Diasies_inMyHair. 17 hr. ago "I don't have time to talk you about [health issue]. He said this in an exasperated tone when I explained why I scheduled the appointment - and this is after entering the room 45 minutes after my appointment time (I was brought back and put in the room on time) and after he'd spent 20 minutes or so in the hallway outside the door talking football with the patient he saw just before me. 1.3k Reply Share
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    Font - OhioGal83 17 hr. ago Went to an insurance approved ON/GYN who explain my bad periods as "Well, that's because Eve made Adam bit the apple and it's God's punishment for women" needless to say I went to another doctor who took the time to test me and found out I had endometriosis. 935 Reply Share
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    Font - troisbatonsverts 16 hr. ago First pregnancy, my husband came to all my appointments with me. Twice, the doctor said,"and, if he really is the father..." Just found a new doctor after that. What a ↑ 762 Reply Share
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    Font - GrimeyScorpioDuffman. 16 hr. ago Not said to me but said about me. I found out from my friend (who went to the same doctor) that he had told her things about my last appointment. What about patient/doctor confidentiality? 588 Reply Share
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    Font - Nekoninja10 17 hr. ago I was trying to get tested for ADHD and before that the doctor has to see if I'm lying or whatever so this is what happened: (I enter the room, not yet sat down) Dr: Miss ninja? You're here about suspected ADHD? Me (now sat down): Yes Dr.
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    Font - Dr: okay and why are you coming so late in life about it. People only develop ADHD as kids. It's highly unlikely you have it. Me (nervous and uncomfortable as I felt like he was wanting me to leave already despite just planting my seat): My parents just on thought I was a wierd kid.
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    Font - Dr: Well give me all your symptoms Me (fidgeting with my hands and hair because I fidget a lot): I get distracted very easily, um, I struggle to keep focus, uh... (forgets everything I've researched when I know I have a lot of symptoms) Dr: Well you don't have ADHD then goodbye
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    Font - Me: Doctor please. I know I have it, give me more than 5 seconds to think. Dr: Fine. Write on paper and bring it to reception when ya can. Now goodbye Miss Ninja
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    Font - The unprofessionalism was how he treated me almost straight off the bat. I've been doctors loads and every one gives you time to think and also type the obvious even if you seem to forget (like here the fidgeting and forgetting). Another unprofessionalism was how he wanted me out the door almost as soon as I got in. I was in 3 mins when patients are allowed up to 15 mins for their slot.
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    Font - I don't know if what I've read is true but I know adults can still get tested so he shouldn't have been so dismissive about it all. T533 533 Reply Share
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    Font - rosesforthemonsters. 15 hr. ago Take a walk in the sun every day. You'll feel better. I had a doctor tell me that after I told her that my fatigue issues are so bad that I fall asleep in the middle of conversations. Sometimes while I am speaking. 253 Reply Share
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    Font - stfrances2968 17 hr. ago It's all in your head. 238 Reply Share

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